A part in us sometimes would rather stay living in the situations that we live in even though they might be horrible only because thats what we are use to. Living in bad & unhealthy situations, soaking in the hurt because we are numb to the reality. You would think that those things fear us, but they dont. The true fear starts to build in us when somewhere in our bodies we consider a change that will take that chaos out of our lives, we dont know what life would be like without it