i find it so funny when my male friends dish out relationship advice but what they have is just as messed up if not worse off...

fix home first.

Find A guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heart beat, or will stay awake to watch you sleep, wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show ou off to the world when you're just in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who thinks that you're just as pretty without make-up on, one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you...The one who turns to his friends with a smile and says, "She's the one!"

forget her.

look at him...so proud & you can see the love on his face...

looks like he's saying "yeah...thats my lady"

#thatslove

DEDICATE A SONG TO ME.

so i dont usually blog these but this one made me DIE laughing

shout out to Patrick haha

well not my wrist...but around my brush handle definitely

“ Do you know that most times men lie because we fear the truth may chase you away?"

this may be true but it could also make us respect you more & be willing to come back & work on things...

got my half off slice today for National Cheesecake Day!

& ate it right by the water =)

"i've had a father, step-father & a husband...but it took my son to show me what a real man is supposed to be"

deep.

i pray i dont have to wait that long...

Guys complain about how hard and complicated us girls are, when you never think about how complicated you guys are. How do you think we feel when you tell us you’re going to do something like call us tonight, then have us waiting for so long? How do you think we feel when you tell us how special we are, but to find that we’re not the only girl you say that to? How do you think we feel over the fact that you guys leave us wondering so much? So much to the point where it starts to hurt?

Think before you say. And think before you act.Love your girl, treat her the way she deserves to be treated. No games, be real. Trust and be loyal, you’ll receive the same back.

That’s all we ask.

Oh. And never underestimate a females power. You think you’ve seen a bitch? You think you’ve seen a girl mad? Trust. You haven’t seen shit.

action.

action.

action.

how dare you be so fine.

so i just got off the phone with one of my cousins & she was just telling me about all the "drama" in her life & all i kept hearing was "tumblr...tumblr...tumblr"

but im guilty of it too

we allow technology to determine too much in every aspect of our lives

text messages are impersonal

social sites have too much power

blogs are journals online

but these things only affect us if we LET them.

smdh i miss CAU.
shout out to my homies, i miss yall too lol

i will be in attendance.

1. we hold people me met two months ago to a higher standard with our emotions than we do somebody we’ve known for ten years.

2. chicks will sleep with a dude they aren’t interested in but will hold out on a guy they actually like.

3. guys will expect women to believe we instantly change…a solid 2 minutes after doing the very thing that caused a woman to not want to deal with them.

4. women will take men back 98 percent of the time.

5. men and women take advice from their single and unhappy friends…because they’re available to give advice instead of happily boning somebody.

-ilmeilyilher

Snickerdoodle you KNOOOOOW why this video had me smiling/cracking UP...do NOT call me lmfao

Jessi this is what goes on =)

word to Honey Bee.

"THE MARK OF A REAL WOMAN IS SHOWN IN HER ABILITY TO GRACEFULLY DISCONNECT WITH THINGS AND PEOPLE THAT HURT HER INTENTIONALLY OR OTHERWISE. A REAL WOMAN SAVORS HER BEST AND WORST MEMORIES, BUT DOES NOT CARRY THEM AS BAGGAGE INTO NEW CHAPTERS IN HER LIFE. A REAL WOMAN IS EVERPRESENT BECAUSE SHE IS UNFORGETTABLE—GRACE, DIGNITY AND SPIRITUALITY SET HER APART FROM ALL OTHERS AROUND HER. HER MIND IS UNIQUE. HER THOUGHTS ARE LIKE FLAWLESS DIAMONDS. SHE IS RARE, BUT SHE IS NOT EXTINCT"

I am done

Smoking gun

We've lost it all

The love is gone

She has won

Now its no fun

We've lost it all

The love is gone

And we had magic

And this is tragic

You couldn't keep your hands to yourself

I feel like our world's been infected,

And somehow you left me neglected

We've found our lives been changed

Babe, you lost me

And we tried

how we cried

we lost ourselves

The love has died

And we had magic

And this is tragic

You couldn't keep your hands to yourself

I feel like our world's been infected

And somehow you left me neglected

We've found our lives been changed

Cause babe, you lost me

Now I know you're sorry

And we were sweet

but you chose lust when you deceived me

And you'll regret it, but it's too late

How can I ever trust you again?

when someone is hurting for you....and remind u all the time....

#ThatsLove

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If you're with somebody and you're thinking about a different somebody than you're with the wrong somebody!"

money changes everything.

& its not always for the better...